Tips for Boomers Helping an Aging Family Member Make Healthcare Decisions
BERKELEY, Calif., April 5 /PRNewswire/ — Baby Boomers facing the
challenge of helping an aging family member navigate the maze of healthcare
decision-making often notice the family member is inclined to make
decisions they themselves might not.
This may be frustrating, but there is an upside.
“Today, with so many new technologies and options, it is much easier to
make healthcare decisions that are more compatible with our individual
values and goals,” says Joanna Smith, founder of Healthcare Liaison, which
helps people navigate the maze that is today’s healthcare system.
“By taking time to understand your family member’s history and outlook,
you’ll have the peace of mind that comes with knowing you’ve helped them
choose a course of care that is both sound and consistent with their
Smith offers these ideas for helping aging family members get the care
they need in a way that respects their values:
— Be patient. Remember an aging family member will make decisions based
on their life experiences — which are frequently quite different from
— If they’re overwhelmed, help them break a big decision down into
several smaller ones. For example, a decision about trying a new drug
becomes “Do you want to try it for a few weeks and then decide if you
want to continue?”
— Most elderly people want to “age in place” if possible. If they must
move to a new environment, be prepared for some initial confusion and
distress — change can be initially quite hard, especially if they are
grappling with dementia.
— Your family member may be sent home from the hospital needing all
kinds of care. Some health plans partially cover needed home health
services, but frequently there is a need for additional help. Have a
plan with other family members about how to address this situation.
— All individuals, especially the elderly, who have an actively involved
family member, get better care. Your presence and involvement in a
family member’s care signals to staff and providers that you are
concerned and want them well cared for.
Joanna Smith, LCSW, MPH is principal of Healthcare Liaison, a company
that assists individuals, families and businesses in navigating the
healthcare maze. Contact her at 510-704-8476; [email protected].